Best Ways to Get Over a Break Up Part II

In my last article, I talked about a few ways to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for getting over a difficult break-up and moving on with your love life. Today, I will continue this discussion and explore a few more tips on how to grow into a better person and take the pain and hurt of a break up in stride. NOTE: Even before you contemplate a break up, perhaps your relationship is salvageable.В Win your our ex back before it's too late with a little magic. Ok, on to a few more tips... 1. "HATE Leads to FEAR leads to SUFFERING..."This Yoda quote exemplifies exactly why you should DEAL very quickly with whatever "hate" issues you may be having. Sometimes you are going to want to scream, you are so pissed off. You may resent your ex because so much time seems "wasted" or there are kids involved that now you have to deal with. Finally, you may come to hate YOURSELF, and that's the scariest place of all, because everyone needs love, but you have to be able to depend on YOURSELF to love YOU first. Don't waste your time with hate. 2. Have a Pow-WowIn some Native American cultures, people would come together in a time of crisis so that the most troubled would gain from the collective wisdom of the community. In microcosm, this still works! Gather up your friends, homies, buddies, compadres..whatever! and get their advice. Perhaps they have been through similar events.Ukrainian women Male friends will provide you with strength, guidance, and clarity to cut through your delusions and better yourself. Female friends will provide you with rejuvenating energy, empathy, and a deeper emotional perspective to give you the nurturing you need to courageously move forward. So, it's MEET UP TIME! 3. Creative ExpressionSome of the most amazing poems, novels, songs, and art have been created by artists suffering immense pain. Each of us has an imagination and a creative side. Explore yours now as a path of expression and put your feelings in a deeper perspective. It's vital to write down what you are going through. Also, in about 1 year or two when you are in a good relationship and you look back at what you wrote, you may be surprised at how you now feel about this breakup that is impacting your life.... Well that's all the tips for now. I will round out this series shortly. Keep these things in mind, but check this out: What if you could stop the break-up process? Would it seem like magic? Don't be shy to try something new by clicking on the link above. God Bless -B. Rose