Best Ways to Get Over a Break Up Part II

In my last article, I talked about a few ways to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for getting over a difficult break-up and moving on with your love life. Today, I will continue this discussion and explore a few more tips on how to grow into a better person and take the pain and hurt of a break up in stride. NOTE: Even before you contemplate a break up, perhaps your relationship is salvageable.В Win your our ex back before it's too late with a little magic. Ok, on to a few more tips... 1. "HATE Leads to FEAR leads to SUFFERING..."This Yoda quote exemplifies exactly why you should DEAL very quickly with whatever "hate" issues you may be having. Sometimes you are going to want to scream, you are so pissed off. You may resent your ex because so much time seems "wasted" or there are kids involved that now you have to deal with. Finally, you may come to hate YOURSELF, and that's the scariest place of all, because everyone needs love, but you have to be able to depend on YOURSELF to love YOU first. Don't waste your time with hate. 2. Have a Pow-WowIn some Native American cultures, people would come together in a time of crisis so that the most troubled would gain from the collective wisdom of the community. In microcosm, this still works! Gather up your friends, homies, buddies, compadres..whatever! and get their advice. Perhaps they have been through similar events.Ukrainian women Male friends will provide you with strength, guidance, and clarity to cut through your delusions and better yourself. Female friends will provide you with rejuvenating energy, empathy, and a deeper emotional perspective to give you the nurturing you need to courageously move forward. So, it's MEET UP TIME! 3. Creative ExpressionSome of the most amazing poems, novels, songs, and art have been created by artists suffering immense pain. Each of us has an imagination and a creative side. Explore yours now as a path of expression and put your feelings in a deeper perspective. It's vital to write down what you are going through. Also, in about 1 year or two when you are in a good relationship and you look back at what you wrote, you may be surprised at how you now feel about this breakup that is impacting your life.... Well that's all the tips for now. I will round out this series shortly. Keep these things in mind, but check this out: What if you could stop the break-up process? Would it seem like magic? Don't be shy to try something new by clicking on the link above. God Bless -B. Rose

Russian woman

The reasons for the misery of Russian women are much deeper. And Orthodoxy and Russian classic literature, and continued poverty helped shape the moral masochism russian ladies. Russian Orthodox Church - is patriarchal institution that supports mazohistkuyu resignation of Russian women. But again, this is only polpravdy. Besides, throughout the history of the Russian Orthodox Church is thriving cult of the Virgin Mary. Icons of the Virgin Mary with the child revered in Russia more than the icons of the adult Christ. It is precisely match pre-Edipovomu (before Edipovu) complex. I spent a lot of time in Russian churches, and saw the revered icon of the Virgin Mary. Who remembers why the Russian state emblem of St. George, but everyone knows Vladimir Mother of God, Mother of God of Kazan. St. George does not protect the Russians, and Virgin stores. Vladimir Mother of God - the official patron of Russia. Likewise, two-children perceive their mothers - as the only defender.

For those who are going to meet his dream

Getting to you, men

 

This article is intended for those who have not yet met the woman of his dreams.

In today's world, girls and women pay more attention to the behavior of men and their appearance. Therefore, turn your attention first on this aspect.

First, in a strong body of a sound mind. Take off with all the clothes and look in the mirror. You do not need to have muscles like Sylvester Stalone or Arnold Shvartseneygera enough that you have not been hanging folds of fat and muscle while the other would have been developed. In short, your figure should be similar to the male. Sociologists conducting a poll and found that women often draw attention to the male part of the body: muscular shoulders, well-developed chest, muscular arms, height, slim figure, eyes and buttocks. But they prefer in men: the buttocks, height, eyes, slender figure. The remaining factors are not important points for inclusion in this list. This does not mean that there are no women who love thy piercing glance stripped and your mustaches a la Charlie, just a very few such women. Another group of social scientists determined that women are most often linked because of the man (to his body and muscles), with its behavior in the bed, ie If a man is well developed physically, it will be a long night of love.

Next, we will consider this hairstyle. Hair - "frame" for the person. No matter what you have long hair, most importantly that they were going well and stacked. Today, fashion short hairstyle. When choosing a hairstyle should be guided by the fact that she would "fit". You can not just take and copy the hairstyle you favorite movie hero or a popular artist, it can only spoil your appearance. Therefore, go to the hairdresser and ask the wizard to select your hairstyle.

Now talk about usah and beard. Psychologists came to the idea that a beard or mustache prefer to be self-doubt a man. Mustaches or beard always give the person in the group some advantages. Remember, you are approached by a group of men and bearded (baleen), you subconsciously think mostly. Of course mustache (beard) you can hide some of the weaknesses of individuals, but women more like men with "jungle" on the face. It's very simple to explain: these beatiful girls love kissing. And your hair so natret her cheeks, and something else so that the future will prefer to stay away from you.

And the last part, the significance of which many young people forget - is clothing. Requirements for clothing as follows: first, to be appropriate for the situation and environment, the second - to emphasize that you are modern. Choose your dress and stick to it.

So, you are now ready to start "hunting for the woman of his dreams." Before leaving the apartment, remember to have a sociological study in which researchers investigated the main characteristics of men who are likely to prefer a woman. The man should be:

1. Strong;

2. Bred;

3. Caring;

4. Prudent;

5. I am confident in myself.

While going down in the elevator in order to determine what you expect from a russian women. It is possible that you can go home already in love, so Vedi in a way that your savings remain intact, friends, work and spend time favorite places.

There are places that do not make acquaintance with the fair sex, are: bars, marriage announcements and work.

Do not get romance with friends of your sister, wife of former Chief, former girlfriend of your friend or those who are much younger than you. In one case you spoil your relations with people in another case you spoil your reputation.

Here you are going to the street and look for the girls, looking a suitable candidate.

The best way to get acquainted with the women in the quiet, nemnogolyudnyh ground, streets, parks, and square where less noise and crowds. Here is much more likely, when compared with libraries, exhibitions, gym, swimming pools and theaters. The main thing is to show the desire, patience and endurance. First of all, the first phase of dating, it is important not to frighten off a woman.

The first thing that usually makes people want to know when - it is suitable to meet the desired object. Ukrainian women should be sure to come calm, mild gait. Before, to see how her name and her phone number, you should be contacted. Usually people request that they have either helped (depending on the situation): the library, you can ask how to use the directory where you want the catalog, etc., in the pool, you can emphasize the skills the girls to swim well in the theater to learn her views on the performance etc. Main establish the first contact. It can not be the first words to express my admiration for her figure, having felt sexual connotation, she immediately decides that you want only the most ". Port view of women these men "not serious".

After the first of your words you shall carefully observe her reaction:

1. Pass by, does not pay attention - so be it, it is not so different.

2. Stop trying to understand the meaning of your words;

3. Pretends that a hurry or care;

In the first case will go to the bird caught by a different, better.

The second and third cases, carefully watching the direction the shell object. If the body directed away from you, then perhaps you need to quickly finish what begun, and also released. Most likely you are to her interests, but the question that you asked not. If you did not receive an interest, so not destiny.

In other cases, when a light shade of your smile, a small delight, a joy that you have met said the same, proceed to the next level.

All his appearance is necessary to persuade a woman in her physical well-being and safety. And some employment. In short its assessment as "good" or "excellent" Your appearance gives you access to her phone number.

Occasionally it is necessary to change places, methods and subjects are dating. When you can get acquainted podygrat woman in her mood. Thus the challenge for the first contact is formulated as follows: it is necessary to make a positive impression on a woman.

Other ways to meet it through friends, at parties, celebrations, etc. It's easy, you submit to one another. Main Remember the first positive impression.

How to get acquainted on the Internet

Many of us concerned about this idea. People who have tried know that not so easy to have acquaintance through the Internet. Of course, as to what effect.

So, read online dating may be on the servers, forums and chat rooms. In chat rooms, however, people are different, but you can always talk to, and then to meet a nice person. Thus, it is possible to find friends.

There are pros and cons of dating after инет. The main drawback is that you can not verify the information on those with whom to correspond. Ineta therefore better to use as a start. Even if you meet some irksome, it is always possible to discontinue the correspondence. Above all, do not forget to use the service free email storage. Communication in chat rooms and e-mail well coached, as well as talk to a stranger is not so easy because of the lack of common themes.

The standard of living of people using the Internet, sulfuric and above, because the Internet - the pleasure's still not cheap. It is much easier than in real life, find friends and associates.

In the Internet, as in real life no one is safe from harm. But there is all this trouble - the virtual. Even if someone says to you, and unpleasant - you can delete it.

If you friendly with people, then they will answer you the same. In инете very convenient to discuss any personal problems anonymously. Above all, be bold and active. In the end, it is you want to get acquainted. As in real life, while studying in the network also occasionally need to take a lot of repeated attempts. One word in Инете easy to train. Well, if you're shy, then your network - an ideal place for dating.

By sending the application server of dating, you know, that picture is a big part of your success. The first thing that visitors see is a photo. And if they like, it will be much znakomtsvo бістрее linked. Regardless of whether it is amateur or a photo studio, you should look natural. Your photos should be good and intriguing. Neither in the case who do not post pictures that you do not like it. Most importantly - the quality of the photo. Already this you must try. As far as requirements for size and amount of photos - please read the terms directly on sites of acquaintances.

Five mistakes single women

If the vain efforts of the love you take a bunch of spiritual forces, perhaps it is time to reconsider their approach to finding true love. Here are five mistakes that make single Beatiful Girls in the process of visits and the initial phase relationship. If something sounds familiar - let's try to fix! We suggest you familiarize yourself with the five most common mistakes single women. Maybe one of you knows something more useful.

I am not worthy of love

If you think unworthy of love, and it will not. Many women, after several visits and parting believe that there is something fatal, "nevlyublyaemoe.

They say words like "Who can I be needed? Obviously, I am doomed to loneliness. To me the crown of celibacy (an evil fate, such a fate, which go)."

Of course, we all deserve love! And how do you think? But if you constantly harp on about a malevolent its share of loneliness and stamp on his forehead, that attitude is beginning to manifest itself in every word, every gesture and act.

In these women, through the doomed half of timid hope and desire to do twice as much to keep a regular fan of the evil charam. Result: we are working on relationships, is clinging to the passing train cars, but not to stay alone.

But if you start to convince yourself to the contrary - "I am a pretty (good, smart, erudite, charming), I just doomed to a great love." Maybe worth a try Motivational, as did "the most charming and attractive" heroine Irene Muravyova?

To vymesti away defeatist thought, start with a simple: Head of a diary. As in the case of Bridget Jones fyrchite men spills evil thoughts to paper and convince yourself of its irresistible. Day after day it will be given all the easier. Ask your relatives and friends to compile lists of your positive qualities and record them on the first page of a diary that you can see them constantly.

Men are not enemies. The enemies - your konkurentki

Try to stop seeing men in the enemy. Yes, the stark truth is that good men there were far fewer than the bad, mediocre, and so-so. But they stayed, and they can be found anywhere.

According to a law of nature Ukrainian women Harmful pulls it to the men, who tend not to respond to calls and sms-ki, say idiotic false excuses, just take care of their mental peace, to recognize love and then have sex with your best friend.

It feels that the woman falls in love with them from the masochism. Sometimes the reason we have to look in their childhood: perhaps your father was the soul of the company, but a harsh and cold homes. You have to do one's worst, to deserve his attention. When you're grown, you are metaphorically continues to meet with the Pope. "

Believe me - a life full of good men, boring and predictable at first glance, could be deprived of the extreme ups and downs, but full of peace, caring and warmth.

Do not take away the freedom of a man

Repeat as a mantra: love - this is not the dog. One 29-year-old Tonya, my friend, was offered the hand and heart. It was her dream of home life, in her fantasies, she and fiance were inseparable, and both day and night.

But the young man had other views on family life. He was not ready to give to Tony rybalok and preference of each week with friends, although she believed that it is not necessary to spend their free time to strangers. Her self-doubt and lust for attention to put a future wife literally under house arrest. Of course, his sole desire was to escape from it.

As a result, Tonya and groom parted. Summary: Even the happiest couples in need of space for growth. The more dynamic the life they live - in terms of work, hobbies, friends - all the more interesting it becomes for the second half.

Do not waste your energy on other men

Treason - is always a betrayal, even if it happened in the imagination. It goes without saying that your partner has a right to treatment for themselves with respect and kindness. If he was talking about their problems, successes and failures in bed, joys and frustrations pretty blonde, a colleague at work, you would like?

It sounds slightly mad, and yet: there is one man who first has the right to your time and energy, and this man - your friend, husband, fiance. And if you spend your mental energies on another person, you have to take energy from their relationship. It is your partner, not the colleague, has a right to hear about your first flight in a dream, intimate feelings and good joke, podslushannuyu in the subway.

Each has its own truth. Umeyte seek compromise

If you constantly have to be right, this is wrong. Perhaps you feel that you have a lot in common with another. You are both economists, both love to play backgammon, tango, and go skiing. Maybe you know some of the PA is better than your partner, in addition to know how to dance the waltz and a little salsa.

This does not mean that you also need to better understand the wines, oils and modern drama. The habit is similar to the truth of the disease. Once distinguished, a person wants to be right in everything. Stay hard, but you can. Sorry - it does not mean to show weakness. What to do in the love you need to give way, and sometimes very strongly.

...noted an interesting feature...

Dr. Episella noted an interesting feature: the period of breast-feeding women are changing the sound preferences. They seem to be a pleasant male voice sound high. «This could be explained by the fact that during the search for a partner or ovulation, women pay attention to the strength and virility, which is associated with a lower voice,», - says researcher. - «However, during lactation they require care and support associated with a high timbre».

These findings are confirmed by data collected Koren Episella and her colleagues last year. And anthropologists have found that men with low voices have more children than those who talked more, «pisklyavym» votes. Scientists believe that the low tone of voice of men is an evolutionary trait. It shows the high level of androgens (male sex hormones) in the body, which increases the likelihood of successful mating. In addition, there's a version that men with lower voices before reaching puberty.

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Speaking as a dance.

Maximum use of male weaknesses. Male power is the dialogue - not taken away from discussing difficult issues, to meet the counter-argument, it is similar to the tug. Talking like a Beatiful Girls dancing on the tight rope - the constant balancing act in a situation of uncertainty. Find a weakness in an opponent, she would methodically beat on it, not giving to distract themselves from this activity. Attempts to draw its attention to other, more valid argument would require special work.

Silence the truth.

To say much about anything: «Language dan diplomat to conceal their thoughts».

 Impasse phrase.

 Women love in the critical phase of the negotiations say: «You do not know what you want!». This position impasse for the opponent, because compels excuses that are bad, but not charged, too, could not resist.

 Domyslivanie (doskazyvanie).

 «I can continue your thought», «guess what you are ...», etc. and all the previous criticism of the opponent is linked to the defeat of the proposed end of the Ukrainian women.

The imposition of sentences.

 «Do it seemed to me», «I do not say!» Etc.

«Taking neck».

Admission relating to continuous speech hindering partner insert his word.

«Closed ears».

Conspicuous by their ears transmission opponent's arguments. So you can translate the conversation into the conflict, encouraging the opponent to give up the first glove. Recognition of a failure to report a great success.